REJECTION IS JUST A MYTH!

REJECTION IS JUST A MYTH!

We will not allow rejection to beat us down. It  strengthen our goals.

Rejection is a natural part of life. We come across certain rejections when we moving towards our goals such as when we are not selected for any competition, not get elected, dont get into the college or graduate school of your choice, don't get the job or promotion we wanted, dont get the appointment we requested, dont get the date we asked for, dont get the permission we requested and the list goes on which varies person to person.

But do you know Rejection is just a myth. It doesnt really exist. It is simply a thought that we have in our mind.

Yes, you heard it right. How Let me illustrate this with an example.

If you ask your classmate to have coffee with you and he or she says No, you didn't  have anyone to have coffee with before you asked, and you don't have anyone with after you asked as well . Here, the situation didn't get worse; it stayed the same. It only gets worse if you tell yourself like "No one wants to come with me, or how he or she could say me No."

This is just a thought game. We could even go for coffee and explore the things through our own ways.

Or taking another instance. If you applied for the college of your dream but anyhow you are not selected, you were not in that college before you applied, and you are not in that college after you applied. Again, your life didn't get worse, it stayed the same. You haven't really lost anything. But because of fear of being rejected, we limit ourselves. We don't ask for What we want.

The truth is, we never have anything to lose by asking. Instead there is something to possibly gain. Isn't it

So whenever we ask anyone for anything, the 4SW needs to be remembered which stands for:

some will, some wont; so whatsomeones waiting. Some people are going to say yes, and some are going to say no. So what! There are over billions of people in this universe. Someone out there is waiting for you and your ideas. It is simply a numbers game. Dont get stuck in your fear. You have to simply keep moving forward until you get what you want. After all, Perseverance is all important

If youre committed to your passion, you keep learning from your experiences, and you stay the course to the end, you will eventually create your desired outcome.

CS NIKITA GUPTA

CS | B.Com | Freelance Writer

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